men are from Mars.women are from Venus. #part 1

pen on ;)
2.32 am

assalamualaikum and good day everyone :)

i'm so in love with reading. and i think that sort of hobby kinda obvious now. doesn't matter what sorts of source i'd read, magazines,novels, comics.etc. tp yg obviousnya is novel opk0s! aha. but it's kind of shock for me. because i can't stay long with love novels. compared to before. i dunno y. but i easily getting bored only by reading to 3-4 chapters of that novels. macam busannn pulakss. like you know, macam..em. like a same-love-story. huahua..because you know why?. i'v own a great one. reality one. kalohh novel semua. aha. *pengsan*

anywayyy~
i wanna share something i'v read with ol of u. apa yg sy mampu cerita and olah. and and and i think it would benefits to me and u ols, so why nottt.whyyy not i share it here kan? :)

i think everyone were so familiar with this novel aite, or shud i called it as a 'motivated novels' to improve a relationship between man and woman. hence it jus not focusing on love relationship, but it gives us ideas, lotsa ideas actually about how to manage a man-woman relationship.

and ouhhh!~ it really open my eyes. open my mind. open my heart widely about my perception towards you.my man :)

oke.oke. let me elaborate some of it seems i wasn't finish yet reading this book. due to my busy-ness.buat buat busy.malas sngttt haih~ :p

first of all :

~ the author explains that men and women have such different needs and expectations that they may as well be from different planets. . yeah.sangat different that's why we need each other:), man and woman are complementary.

~ men value themselves through achievement.they wanna solve problems and build great things. they think that problems are opportunities for a solution. if the problems are too big to solve, they go off by themselves and do something to forget about it. but actually, deep down, men fear that they are not good enough or not competent, and consequently desire to be needed and trusted. they wanna be the best among the best. the best for himself, the best for his family and the best for his love one.

~ women, value themselves through the depth of their relationships. they intuit or understand others needs and automatically give of themselves to help. their deep fear is they are not worthy of love. they give freely and give to0 much but at the same time, they are afraid to be hurt by giving to0 much. Consequently, women want to be cherished and have their feelings understood.

~ when a man was in stress, he will focus on solving a problem. he will picks the most urgent problem or the most things that burden him, and become so focused on solving this problem and temporarily loses awareness of everything else including you, his love one. so0o pls, after this jgn nak tacing-tacing sngtla kan *ckp kt diri sendiri*, because it's the fact of man. the truth is 90%. and the rest 10% is; the man'll try so hard to not ignore you when he's in trouble. berperang dgn konflik dalaman ;p, and ouhhh!, plus in such times, he becomes increasingly distant, forgetful, unresponsive and preoccupied in his relationships..

~ and woman, through talking actually can make her feel relief. man needs to know when woman is in stressed, she instinctively feels a need to chit chat with you, manja-manja luahluah apa yg gerammarahsedih di hati. and, woman is not immediately concerned with finding a solutions to her problems but rather seeks relief by expressing her feeling and being understood by you. my man :), by randomly talking about her problems, she becomes less upset. ketahuilah wahai jejaka hati saya. i'll feel relief if you are here with me to hear anything from me, and you need to know, i dun't need any solution from you.i dun wanna burden you, i just wanna you to be my best listener, my pillow talk. my tears-mate. i wanna feel your warm hugs whenever i feel sad :). thats all ;)


" once upon a time, Martians and Venusians met, fell in love and had happy relationships together because they respected and accepted their differences "

:)

thts all from now, till i bl0g again.keep on reading. ahaks! ;p

lotsa love ya! <3

susah itu harus bersama :)

i pray for him.

i pray for his happiness.

i pray for his journey of life get ease from day to day.

oh Allah.You are the ONLY ONE who can make my pray become reality.

i beg you o'Allah.

do give away all YOUR BLESSING towards everyone i love.

amin.

:)

pernah rasa susah hati kalau orang lain susah hati?.

harus la kan.

instinct saya sngt kuat.
no wonder i was not so in a good mood these past few days.
keep on dreaming all not so best dream. =='.
eventhough sehari tu termimpi dapat anak twins plak! aha. seronok.tp tetap susah hati kalau awk susah hati.

macam tak best feeling ni.

sangat tak best.

sincerely.

i do not so care about msg-ing 24/7. i just need to know that he was in a good condition. as we are not so selalu bermsg. but i do love this way now. :)

but once. he was not in a good condition.
i feel so uneasiness. =,=

rasa nak amik kunci kereta abah yang boleh speed 150km/h tak terase pape and speed to him right now. yes. right now.

not for anything.
just want to see his smile.
smiling happily. *hopefully*
with his big cute tummy. aha. ♥
relieved. :)

dear.
life is not as easy as writing wut you want on a piece of paper then it'll miraculously happen.
life needs sacrifice and hard-hurt feelings to achieve what we want.
but patience need to be in d highest level in your heart.
insyAllah.
i'll be by your side as long as you want me to

:)

anyway. do not pursue high achievement of number's scoring. but pursue as much as possible knowledge to guide you throughout your entire life :)






♥ ya. insyAllah always ♥

^_^

♥ 2 years ♥

May today be filled
with happy memories of the past
and bright hopes for the future..

Love is not as simple
as candlelight and roses...
love is day-to-day living,
taking time, making time to be there,
with open arms and a giving heart...
Love is the special life we share.

May Allah always bless both of us~.
May He makes us strong.
May He guides us to the right path of love~


" it started with a simple ~hye. and i hope, there's no goodbye ".

♥ his heart's mine? ♥

assalamualaikum :).

hai.

ok. so when it's come to love. i'll excitedly to talk about it. :)
love is not just a noun. it's more than that. isn't it?. but how you feel it ladiess?
how you wanna win your dream man heart. ahhh. it's hard. rite. even i can feel it t0o. it's hard for me..even i have one. but i'm still not perfect enuf to win his heart.goshh.=='

there is a man you love. smart. gorgeous. exciting. captivating, mesmerizing. auwww :p
he has takes ur breath away. unfortunately he is so hard to get. yaww. belagakk! aha.

you want to win his heart. you need to win his heart cause he means the world to you..
but you are afraid. yes. you are afraid because.

You know you will end up with a broken heart if you don't win your dream man

rite ladies? :)

but then. let me assure u this!

You deserve to win your dream man!
You deserve to win the love of the man you love!

Love doesn't come easy yaww. love is a profound feeling reserved for someone who touches your senses in a special way. and when you find that special person, strong emotions well up inside you passionately! it's like magic. miraculously pop up from ur heart!you deserve to be happy. you deserve to be in the arms of someone you love; your dream man. no one else deserves to the heart of your dream man but you because you love him like no one else does. Sure you want to win your dream man over?

let hear wut my heart said :)

i'm trying to win over his heart.
i always make sure i'm perfect through his eyes.
i have to be the real me. and not someone else.

i have to believe in faith that HE bestowed to me.
if HE said that he is the right one for me.
i'm pleased with it.

i don't need to be beautiful outside..(shud be like this actually)
but i often wanna b beautiful one for him =='
because HE gave me the charming one.
so i should be the pretty one for him.

but then i realize.
my physical appearance will not long lasting.
beauty within me~that will lasts forever.

but.
did i have the beauty heart to give him.
i just don't know..
but as long as he is still with me
i will ensure that my heart is sincerely only for him
and i will struggle more to win his heart
insyAllah

:)



i love this song

:)
enjoy yah!

^___________^

♥ superhero ♥

"A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing."
~George Bernard Shaw

saya kenal dia
kelakar.
tiada putus semangat.
kental jiwanya.
futuristik mindanya.
bak kata
mata dan hati ini susah
susah untuk melihat bila agaknya dia mengeluh.

tapi
biasalah
bumi lagi berputar
pokok yang renek pun suda sedikit tinggi la agaknya
jadi
tiada pelik
kalau dia ada turun naik
eh
eh
mana semangat awak yang jitu
cepat
cari
kejar
genggam kuat kuat

pernah satu ketika dahulu
saya tiada sinar
namun
kerana dia
saya suda berani bersuara
tiada lagi manusia manusia yang tegar
membuli
eh
eh
sekarang saya suda kuat
cekal
:)

baguskan dia?

hati
semoga hati dia kuat
minda
arahkan pada sesuatu yang
menjadi peniup semangatnya
jiwa
bersatulah dengan hati dan minda
supaya dia
akan lebih bersemangat dengan izinNya

:)

saya?
teman leteran beliau. :)


kalau 10 orang bace ini, maka 10 orang mendoakan awak.
kalau lebih lebih ramai ramai amat orang bace ini, semuanya turut mendoakan awak.
*ehh. ayat kaw hebatla sha* :p


terima kasih semua! ;)

:: happy mama's day. happy mak's day and happy ibu's day ::

Mother's Day...
a time for warm thoughts
and fond memories,
for expressing
the feelings and words
that often go unspoken,
for letting
those special people
in our lives know
that they are loved
and appreciated -
always.

assalam! :)


hey0 semua. today is mother's day ya.
kenapalah tiada org wish sy?.hadoii. aisyahh!.cepat wish aunty.=='. hakhak.

just now, i'v called mama and release a load of burden in mind once i heard mama's voice :). *omesick. omjayyy* ==', anyoyoyo, anak mama merengek da. *abah common's phrase* =='.

and here. with full of my heart, i wanna to grab this opportunity to wish all mama's in the world, HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY :), as mama has lighten everyone's life. rite? :)






this is my mama! :), mama teman berkepit abah, mama manja abah and may Allah keep both of em together in all their life. amin :)

cerita ttg mama saya :

mama is a eldest sister, her siblings used to call her as *yong* :)
yong in perak means along, and along means anak sulung and so obviously my mama is very independent one but sangat sangat manja dgn abah ^__^ ngeheee. co cuwitttttt :D

mama kerja as teacher. she is firm but friendly. pupils are afraid of my ma, but mama is one of the teachers who always brought so much present until the seat beside and behind mama's car during Teacher's Day was full! yaww. *i wish i could be like mama one day * :)

my ma is very sensitive one. and abah often told us not to make mama worried especially when i feel sick, kalo tak teruk lagi abah ckp jgn bitau mama sebab mama akn pakse abah utk bawa ke hospital, and abah berasa sedikit malas kerana anak abah mest takkan makan ubat. so better stay home. *abah cakap* :p :p

my ma is the best chef in my life :), pttla tak kuruih2. haihh lar =='. since abah kerja dekat dgn rumah, mama never let abah buy his own lunch or breakfast. abah mesti balik utk makan di rumah because mama will prepare breakfast and lunch for abah before mama went to school. * harap harap sy buley jadi mcm mama utk awk nantikan * :p

mama always make sure all her daughters get what they want. *permintaan yang bernas bernas ajela oke :) * and now. anak mama semua da besar, tinggal si shorty yang muke bulat tu aje di rumah menemani mama dan abah. mama ckp mama selalu migrain sbb shorty itu sangat bising. deyy.kepochi ya kaww :p



tapi without this kepochi mesti rumah sangat sunyi kan ma?.eh.eh bukan yg specky one tau 0__o, yang shorty one :p.

and rumah akan sangat sangat bingit this coming school holiday. yawwwww.rawrrrrr. tak sabar =='.

oke skrg nak tulis surat cinta utk mama =='. sangat rindukan mama. huhu


dear mama ,

i love you so much ma. there's no way i can ever repay your kindness. there's no way i can ever really thank you for all you had done for me, nevertheless insyAllah, i'll make it a habit to keep reminding myself of the various sacrifices you made while raising me.

you are music in me ma. you are so special. without you, my happiness will disappear =='

How did you find the energy ma,
To do all the things you did,
To be wife, mama, teacher, nurse and counselor
To me when i was kid until now.

How did you do it all, ma
Be a chauffeur, cook and friend,
Yet find time to be a playmate,
I just can't comprehend.

I see now it was love, Ma
That made you come whenever I'd call,
i love you ma..:)



mommy kpd dear sy :)



Happy Mak's Day Makcik :).

thanks for the love you had gave me eventhough we'r far apart. hey. love doesn't care about distance rite? :)

i'd seen your sacrifices and my heart keeps on whispering that you are such a great mommy :)

*pakcek! suda wish mak?. kisses and hug? mest belum. nak kena cocok hidung ni :p*

and lastly Happy Ibu's day untuk Ibu.

thanks for everythings ya ibu :) and thanks for making me happy whenever i'm far from mama. uhuuu. *muke sedey while eating eating cocolat ibu kasik *. wehuuuuuu ;p ;p




and as usual. when there's happiness there should be sadness. =='.

tak perlu huraian yang panjang.

mari sedekahkan *Al-Fatihah* kpd roh-roh ibu yang sudah kembali ke Rahmatullah. semoga roh roh mereke dicucuri rahmat dan ditempatkan dalam golongan orang yang beriman. insyAllah. amin..


to my dear friend. if she reads this entri. semoga farah kuat ye dgn hari hari mendatang :)

Allah tahu kemampuan seorang hambaNya. and He knows that you are strong and strongest one to face all this. kuat ya kak yong :)



i love you.
we love you. forever and ever :)


oke peeps. eh eh tak sopan=='. oke kawan kawan let us pray for our parents yah ;)

Bismillahirahmanirahim...


setakat ini sahaja semua. semoga bergembira ya di bawah celah ketiak emak emak anda. :D. sy bila pulak?.rindu maa.==' huuu.

adioss.
:D

je'taime :)

assalamualaikum. hai.hai.

mukadimah ringkas. pictures told everything :)















i do love you ya :)

life is art..

" suara..dgrkanlah aku..
apa khabarnya pujaan hatiku.."



where is him..waiting =__=.
and. silent.......



ahh.yes. yes. absolutely right.

i'm hurt so much when i miss you =_____=

a letter for you

kehadapan bakal teman hidup saya. assalamualaikum. hai. hai. hai awak! :)

tonite. rasa nak mengada ngada sebentar. tacing. tacing sedikit. buley tak? aha -___-"

"hai awak. i'v known you not for a long moment. but maybe it's enough for me to know you better at this moment. :). and same goes on you. you are like my bl0od-tight ppl. you can understand me much much more. and sometimes you are d most understanding ppl. biasalakan, sebab awk kaseh sy infinity rite!.eh.eh :p

almost 2 years dear :) and i suddenly remembered wht had u told me, " we'v never fight each other. misunderstanding jus a few minutes and later we'll b fine not more than a day. not more than an hour but only a few minutes".. i try to b d good one for u. even sometimes i feel it was hard and hurt. because i know myself. i'm not a good girl. and i try to be. and sometimes i feel like i wanna to give up doing all this. kerana saya rasa saya sangat2 bnyk kekurangan. and everytime i spoke it out, you'll warn me not to do it anymore.=__='. then i surrender with lack of confidence inside me.

i need you now. later and for my future. i really aim for you. i really s0oo into this relation because i aim for you to be mine " menjadi yg halal utk sy". even you r not my first one. but i pray to Allah, let you b my last one. insyAllah. i need you to guide me. i need you to b my imam. i need you to help me gain Allah's blessings " keredhaan Allah terhadap seorg isteri bergantung pd keredhaan suaminya".

awk.
if.
one day. HE say that we are not meant to b together as i always pray to HIM

"........ seandainya dia bukan jodohku, Kau temukanlah dia dgn wanita yang dapat memberi kebahagiaan padanya dan seluruh keluarganya"

we have to b strong :) as you always remind me to be strong kan.!. ^______^

and i wanna to tell you no matter what. awk adalah sahabat terbaik saya dunia akhirat. insyAllah. and i hope, awak adalah sahabat dan KEKASIH saya till my last breath.

sekian shj.

asslamualaikum :)


♥saya kaseh awk infinitee insyAllah ;)♥

untouchable

a gift can be as simple as an apology,

or as easy as a thank you.

what matter the most is where the gift came from.

which walk us back to our heart.

thanks dear for all those sweet things

and

i'm sure i can't stop aiming to b with you

love ya

:)

how sweet when you are my husband. seorang lelaki bergelar suami

few days ago.
i'v read one blog. my senior's blog. shes got married for almost a month maybe. and she'll finished up her study s0on.*beshhh* and today. again.
sy terbace one blog that story about marriage life. oh.how sweet they are..

rindu seorang isteri pada suami.sayang seorang isteri pada suami. kasih dan cinta seorang isteri pada suami adalah cinta yg halal. indah sngt2. i dunno how, but hopefully..one day i'll have d opportunity to feel it.

now.
cinta, rindu, kasih dan cinta itu mmg ada.but ia hnya ada.ada dlm hati and still dunno how to express it. rindu.buley sekadar ckp jela. 'i miss u dear'..tp hny dpt diluah. yaa. and i know.when it comes to hubungan yg halal, segala2ny menjadi lebih indah..

rindu si isteri pada suami even for only 1 minute he left his wife, tears drop. and he came to wipe d tears. and his warmth makes his wife feel better.

sayang si isteri pada suami when she saw her husband sleep without pillow, she come near and make her arm as his pillow.

cinta si isteri pada suami, when she saw her husband was in trouble, in stress..she never ever put more tense on him., but she will b a good partner to calm down the tense.

cinta seorang isteri pada suami adalah cinta untuk mengejar dan mencari keredhaan Allah.
kerana syurga seorang isteri itu adalah di bawah tapak kaki suami.
redha Allah terhadap seorang isteri bergantung pd keredhaan suaminya..

RASULULLAH saw bersabda yang bermaksud:
"Seorang isteri yang bermuka muram di hadapan suaminya,
maka ia dalam kemurkaan Allah hingga ia dapat membuat
suasana yang riang gembira kepada suaminya dan memohon
kerelaannya."

Begitulah besarnya harga senyuman seorang isteri kepada
suaminya kerana senyuman akan mencetuskan suasana
kegembiraan yang sebenarnya dikehendaki suami ketika
pulang dalam keletihan.

i do love him

surprise.surprise
this kid was so cute larh.

:)
i do love him ;)






it is not parental training oke.haha
again.again
i do love him much.much ;)

how sweet they are

how sweet they are. early in the morning he holds my hand tightly :)
ouh.touchingnyaa. -__-

hai.hello.hari ni saya seronok di sekolah compared to my first day.today i'v spent a lot of time with two kids who have critical problem. mental retardation and autisme. mereka tidak mahu masuk ke kelas dan telah menghabiskan masa bersama saya dan dua orang rakan saya.aha :D.

i wanna share here. that i'm so speechless.ya Allah..how sweet they are. sangat comel.sangat suci.sangat..sangat..dan sangat..sangat aish.tiada kata2 lar.sangat suka mereka!



honestly i said.first time i saw them during my last practical, i was so afraid and a bit anxious to b close with them..but day after day..sejuknya hati tgk mereka. when i be with them rasa masalah tu hilang. rasa berada di dunia lain. rasa sejuk sangat.tenang. then try it urself oke! :). and pada sesiapa yang memiliki hati yang keras, ego yang tinggi pun insyAllah buley cool down bila bersama mereka.oh.sweetnya mereka. (^__^)

treat them like how we treat ourselves.
love them like how we love ourselves.

mama selalu pesan. mereka adalah sumber untuk kita mendapat pahala. merekalah yang mendidik jiwa dan hati kita untuk menjadi seorang manusia yang betul2 berhati manusia.
mereka bukan menumpang kehidupan kita di dunia, kelahiran mereka bukannya satu keburukan malah seribu kebaikan. tanpa mereka siapalah kita. and saya sngt berpegang pd kata2 mama ini. they are so special. mybe they are lack in physical and mental but they are so rich with honestly and sincerely.





i love them so much like i love myself.like i love my family and like i love him.they are part of me from now on. saya rasa sngt bertanggungjwb utk membela nasib mereka.
ouh.sedey rasanya. -____-

i'm proud to b ur teacher.
their special make them sooo special! :)

sy ada chef! silalah masak utk saya oke :D

aha.
hebatla dear saya harini.beliau tolong mak masak.nyummy! :)
dari saat ini.secara rasminya saya melantik beliau menjadi chef terhormat! ahaa.
(^__^)

note utk encik chef!

nt masak sodap2 ye utk sayeee.
saya nak makan spageti
nak makan piza
nak makan mushro0m s0up
nak makan nasi ayam
nak makan nasi minyak! ups.:D
nak makan big apple.haha :p
nak makan macam2 lagi lar
silala masak utk saya oke.saya tidak pandai masak -___-

:D

hee.he's my dear.
bertuah rasanyaaa (^__^)
he's completed my life from now on and hopefully until my last breath

ily! :)

chemistry of love

sudah lame tidak mengupdate blog

bukan malas

tapi blur

because

IMY

so muchhh!

(-_____-)

she was not beautiful

She was not beautiful.

Nothing about her was extraordinary.

Nothing about her made her stand out in a crowd.

but she was so lucky that

there was

a handsome

a kind

and

a sweet

guy

willing to be her partner

long lasting

:)