men are from Mars.women are from Venus. #part 1

pen on ;)
2.32 am

assalamualaikum and good day everyone :)

i'm so in love with reading. and i think that sort of hobby kinda obvious now. doesn't matter what sorts of source i'd read, magazines,novels, comics.etc. tp yg obviousnya is novel opk0s! aha. but it's kind of shock for me. because i can't stay long with love novels. compared to before. i dunno y. but i easily getting bored only by reading to 3-4 chapters of that novels. macam busannn pulakss. like you know, macam..em. like a same-love-story. huahua..because you know why?. i'v own a great one. reality one. kalohh novel semua. aha. *pengsan*

anywayyy~
i wanna share something i'v read with ol of u. apa yg sy mampu cerita and olah. and and and i think it would benefits to me and u ols, so why nottt.whyyy not i share it here kan? :)

i think everyone were so familiar with this novel aite, or shud i called it as a 'motivated novels' to improve a relationship between man and woman. hence it jus not focusing on love relationship, but it gives us ideas, lotsa ideas actually about how to manage a man-woman relationship.

and ouhhh!~ it really open my eyes. open my mind. open my heart widely about my perception towards you.my man :)

oke.oke. let me elaborate some of it seems i wasn't finish yet reading this book. due to my busy-ness.buat buat busy.malas sngttt haih~ :p

first of all :

~ the author explains that men and women have such different needs and expectations that they may as well be from different planets. . yeah.sangat different that's why we need each other:), man and woman are complementary.

~ men value themselves through achievement.they wanna solve problems and build great things. they think that problems are opportunities for a solution. if the problems are too big to solve, they go off by themselves and do something to forget about it. but actually, deep down, men fear that they are not good enough or not competent, and consequently desire to be needed and trusted. they wanna be the best among the best. the best for himself, the best for his family and the best for his love one.

~ women, value themselves through the depth of their relationships. they intuit or understand others needs and automatically give of themselves to help. their deep fear is they are not worthy of love. they give freely and give to0 much but at the same time, they are afraid to be hurt by giving to0 much. Consequently, women want to be cherished and have their feelings understood.

~ when a man was in stress, he will focus on solving a problem. he will picks the most urgent problem or the most things that burden him, and become so focused on solving this problem and temporarily loses awareness of everything else including you, his love one. so0o pls, after this jgn nak tacing-tacing sngtla kan *ckp kt diri sendiri*, because it's the fact of man. the truth is 90%. and the rest 10% is; the man'll try so hard to not ignore you when he's in trouble. berperang dgn konflik dalaman ;p, and ouhhh!, plus in such times, he becomes increasingly distant, forgetful, unresponsive and preoccupied in his relationships..

~ and woman, through talking actually can make her feel relief. man needs to know when woman is in stressed, she instinctively feels a need to chit chat with you, manja-manja luahluah apa yg gerammarahsedih di hati. and, woman is not immediately concerned with finding a solutions to her problems but rather seeks relief by expressing her feeling and being understood by you. my man :), by randomly talking about her problems, she becomes less upset. ketahuilah wahai jejaka hati saya. i'll feel relief if you are here with me to hear anything from me, and you need to know, i dun't need any solution from you.i dun wanna burden you, i just wanna you to be my best listener, my pillow talk. my tears-mate. i wanna feel your warm hugs whenever i feel sad :). thats all ;)


" once upon a time, Martians and Venusians met, fell in love and had happy relationships together because they respected and accepted their differences "

:)

thts all from now, till i bl0g again.keep on reading. ahaks! ;p

lotsa love ya! <3

:groom's boutonerie :

semalam i mimpi kawen.haha.haish!
semua gara-gara en.barney yang sangat nakal.beliau kerap amat mengusik anak mama ni until angau saya dibuatnya.haha.haishh.(>_<).
garden's theme plus bunga-bunga yang cantik, ade butterfly berterbangan plus redup2.bayu yang berhembusan.huaa.kenapa buley dapat mimpi macam itu.jelas plak tu.sebab tu la pagi ni bangun awl kot.haha.tidak sanggup utk lame2 berada dlm mimpi itu.nanti seharian angau aje.lambat lg mau kawennya.tp keinginanny sangat2 da ni.haha.anak mama ni.haishh! (-__-) :D

bercakap pd diri :
'sabar sha, there's long way t0 go.tunggula sem last ke.'haha :D
kumpul seberapa banyak ilmu yg boleh utk mnjdi seorg isteri dulu.marriage is not a game without rules.but it is a game with rules.follow up d rules, then u can have a great marriage life.happily ever after :)

oke.dalam mimpi tersebut saya menyuruh beliau berpakaian sebegini.haha.cumel!
ala2 begini la.because he refuse to wear it.but i force him t0 do.and at last, he follows my word :).saya tahu beliau sayang saya.dengar cakap ye!.hee :)







: he is my cute prince :
:)

aha.beliau refuse utk berpakaian sebegini kerana beliau tidak mahukan bunga2 yang cantik2 itu dislipkan pd his weds suit.haha.tp saya mahu juga!.cumel (>_<)

my sunshine.cinta lgi.??lalala~

ouh.u r my sunshine.
my only sunshine::.
wink*

::selamat malam::annyeonghi jumuseyo::Oyasumi::

oho.tatau nk wt apela tonite.sngt2 b0ring.but for sure.everyday.rase sngt2 rindu pd my FA.~~lalala~apekah yg terjadi.?kenape cm gatal sngt je *ta kisahla.sbb mmg benar2 belaka*.;p
aha.mood sy sngt2 maj0r in him.tp sngt2 minor in study.bukan min0r da.da kurang dr min0r kot.nex paper ialah PKK EDU3102.apekah ia?
'PERKEMBANGAN KANAK-KANAK".da xlarat nk bce da.bukan ape.yola.kite pun pena rase kecik.pena rse remaja.*dh skrg ape ea.*masih remaje*haha;D.so insyAllah.confidently, pengalaman akan menolongku nanti.tp japg studyla kot bile mood insaf tu datang.sebab bile bukak je notes PKK tu ade suare bby ni "suda2 la mengkaji ttg sy,;sy malular akak".haha.wo0w.mmg sngt2 teruja la.jadi trus je tutup notes itu.;D..

mood skrg juga adalah sngt2 major in shopping.rase cm da lame sngt je x shopping.window shopping pun da sngt lame xbuat *nk tunjuk sy seorg yg struggle study*.haha;D..:SO kalo on9 je mest n absolutely lar sy mengunjung ke shopping2 mall secara on9.even xreality tp tetap rse puas coz dpt juga cuci mate ni.sebenany nk release tension kot.xpun mmg da mood shopping skrg.so ikut jela kerenah mood sy ni kn.::

mood sekarang juga adalah *angau*.mama ckp sy gatal.abh ckp sekarang mcj sape je tu.asyik mcj je abah teng0k..dabeda beduuuu~~.lalala~.mest lar myFA bah ngn ma ni.aish2.hee..
siyesly..sngt2 bahagia skrg.sngt2 dear!;)).sy tanak kasik tau awk sy ade buat bl0g.sbb sy nk awk tau sndrik.so kalo awk find out sndrik..awk jgn mara2 sy oke;)).surprise utk awk.;)) <3..*mood gatal*.lalala~

kami memang xpena jumpa.tp memamg sngt2 nk jumpe.tgu keizinan dr mama+abah.;))
plus rase cm lain sngt bile ngn die..n when i wit u.sy brani meletakkan aim sy.
sebab yakin,tenang dan selesa bila bersama..huu.really dear.*malu je kn*.tp totally true.deeply fr0m my heart.;).even he is so0o busy. *die xcakap.tp sy tau*.he still spend his time wif me.menjage quality time dgn sy.wah.sngt terharu!;).:insyAllah.ape yg sy rase skrg.bukan hnya utk skrg..utk kite pd msa akan dtg.untill our old world dear..;)).insyAllah.
sy akan sentiase bersama anda.selagi anda perlukan sy.;).oke dear!

i trust.everything yg terjadi antara kite adalah aturanNya.sngt2 hebat aturanNya.
thanks kerana tidak membenci sy.tidak menyimpan dendam terhadap sy.
thnks dear.kerana masih setia menunggu sy dan masih menerima sy dlm hidup anda;).

my FA;)