" no clue "

"Friendship is a pretty full-time occupation if you really are friendly with somebody. You can't have too many friends because then you're just not really friends."
; anonymous

i just don't know which point could i start first. there's a bunch of point i wanna talk and share. and it's been a long time i'm not sharing something with u all rite, and sudden i realize , sometimes, someday. i need to voice it out.

actually, friendship is not something marketplace in my heart., because for me if u r able to manage or handle it, to cope with it, then ur friendship'll be sweet forever no matter what problem are you faces.

friendship is a great art. oke. let me tell you why,~ love has a natural instinct behind it; friendship has no natural instinct behind it. friendship is something conscious; love is unconscious. and friendship teach us to be straight forward rather than hypocrite. the most fundamental thing in friendship is to give freedom to the other to be himself. if there is a trust, there is no need to dominate the other; there is no need to chain or tight him ,and for me between two friends only one thing exists that bridges them, and that is TRUST; but it does not bind them.


friendship is soft., you must keep it safely if you don't you should prepare to lost it forever. in a good relationship, don't hope anything rather than long lasting relation. don't hope people to keep accompany you, to make you smile, to make you comfort and etc, but try to make people smile and comfort with you.

for more, you do not have to weigh your thoughts and measure words, before keeping it forth before your friend. it is when someone knows you better than yourself and assures to be your side in every emotional crisis. it is when you can sleep fighting and get another morning with a better understanding. friendship is much beyond roaming together and sharing good moments, it is when someone comes to rescue you from the worst phase of life.

and it is tiring when in friendship, we need to beware with anything; beware with new-coming friend to avoid the feelings of " u take my best friend ", ahhh! nonsense.
it's tiring when only one person give and hope to receive something.
it's tiring when only one person try to change their habits or attitude to adapt with.
and it's tiring when we need to weight our thoughts and measure our words.

i just remembered my oldies time, when i used to tell mama everything about my friends who are not achieve my satisfaction level. unfortunate, mama scolded me back, she says

" that's not your friends who trouble and hurt you, but it's your heart and your bad thought of your friends , and if you not cope with all your friends, you are going to lost them and yet, please ready to be alone ".

f r i e n d. are like the cheese in cheesy lava pizza. without the cheese, there's no cheesy ;)


"A true friend stabs you in the front."
- Oscar Wilde