parental training :)

hai

hai

salam satu malaysia

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saya bukan dr. fadzillah kamsah. saya bukan marry poppin juga bukan nanny mcphee :D

haha. sy mahu share sumthing hasil kajian saya. cewah :p

oke. actually my life were surrounded by kids. mereka cumel cumel dan amat nakal oke! tapi geram gilee.haish. oke.oke.stop it sha=_='.

oke.parents out there or parents future to b ke or wut so ever. here i wanna share my little.tiny. narrow knowledge, and wut i had see from my surroundings.. hanya memberi pendapat shj oke ;)

actually i was a bit pity when i see those kids with zero mind development. i can assume it as zero la eventhough her mom claim that she has give a lot of stimuli to her kids. we refer back to wut kind of stimuli that mom gives to her son/ daughter. the stimuli should and act must cover up all aspects; emotion, cognitive, physical, psikomotor, and bla.bla.saya tidak berapa teror la. but kalau ade aspect yg disebut insyAllah akan lahir anak yg bijak pandai belaka. bijak pandai tu act not a measurement to b a top one. tp sebenarny their behaviour rite. so utk bentuk behaviour yg baik ni pun depends on stimuli yg diberikan oleh si ibu :)

stimuli in aspect of emotion :

1. creates something that can involve their emotion. for example ; love , fear , brave etc.
2. games yang memerlukan co-operation between two persons for eg; mom and her kiddo la kan, akan ajar anak utk jadi lebih bersabar dan high cooperative skills.
3. takut pada sesuatu yg bahaya. should teach them this. kena ajar yg mane betul dan yg mane salah. yang mane boleh dan yg mane tak boleh. jangan bagi alasan with this common phrase " ala, budak2 tak tahu apa lagi, nanti tunggu da besar baru ajar ". uuuh. tunggu da besar alamatny anak ajar mak lar nanti :D

stimuli in aspect of cognitive :

1. a bunch of cognitive stimulation can built a dozen.dozen.dozen genius kiddss :). since their childhood time they should expose to something that need them to THINK. THINK and THINK! :)
2. for exmple by giving them a BLOCKS. or famously called as 'Lego'.

or maybe a puzzle

ala

kalau suda dewasa pun nak siapkan puzzle sesimple ini pun perlu berfikir rite?

so do the children t0o. lagi perlu banyak berfikir

: when they keeps on thinking, actually their brain was processing all the neuron in their brain, and the neuron will actively response to each other :

" lagi banyak rangsangan lagi banyak mereka berfikir "

:)

stimuli in aspects of physical and psikomotor :

1. "healthy person have a good physical appearance". didik anak utk amalkan hidup yang sihat :). no sweets . no carbonate drinks. no junk food. say no to MSG. yucksss!.
2. to train they psikomotor movement, utk perkembangan otot yang baik. give them a pencil and a paper. then just see what they'll do with these kinds of things. tak payah tunggu sampai umur 4tahun baru nak bagi pegang pencil. kenapa? takut conteng dinding rumah? ala. kalau tidak di ajar mana betul mana salah mungkin akan berlaku but kalau diajar mungkin dapat dielakkan. insyAllah :)
3. biarkan mereka membuat contengan bebas di kertas kertas. just b the guidance. no such a warn word. never say no to what they are doing.*kalau benda tu tak nampak salahnya lar *

anak anak ni dunia mereka hanya main. main mereka adalah alam belajar mereka. mereka bermain untuk :

• MeNeroka..
• BelajAr...
• Ser0nOK..
• pENGalaman..etc.

ibu bapa perlu bimbing. jangan terlalu lepas tangan. suda mandikan, suda bagi makan then nak main, main lah ikut suka. it was absolutely wrong. kadang kadang anak tu main sorang without zero communication pun tak membantu perkembangan bahasa anak2. so that's y, masih ada kanak2 yg berumur 3thn susah nak bertutur. there's zero reason for mom and dad y their 3years old kid still can't speak correctly. melainkan anak itu adalah anak anak istimewa. :)

mama cakap. if my mama tak cakap pun i noe it already :D

" sebaik daging tersebut diitiupkan roh ke atasnya, maka bermulalah tanggungjawab ibu dan bapa utk mendidik "

:)

renung renungkan dan selamat beramal. ahHa :D

:)

how sweet they are

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